Jacqulynn Joy Mulyk
a.k.a Jake Joy
How I can help…
My approach
My background
My path to becoming a therapist was shaped by both personal and professional experience. I grew up navigating complex family dynamics, including depression and low self-worth in those closest to me. That early exposure to emotional pain—and the silence surrounding it—sparked a deep desire to understand healing on a soul level. After years of my own therapy, reflection, and growth, I made it my life’s work to help others reclaim their voice and find clarity. I'm a licensed psychotherapist with a Master’s in Counselling Psychology, specialized training in trauma recovery, relationship dynamics, and over a decade of experience in education, emotional health, and creative facilitation.
Who I work with
Therapy with me is both grounded and dynamic—equal parts empathy, insight, and real-world tools. I use evidence-based approaches like Internal Family Systems (IFS), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and trauma-informed care, weaving in creativity and somatic practices where it fits. I bring curiosity, warmth, and high ethical standards to every session, so clients feel safe, supported, and empowered to do meaningful work. You can expect honest reflection, gentle challenges, and a space that stays centered on your goals and growth.
🔷 Summary of Additional Qualifications & Specialized Training
Advanced Training & Certification Areas (2024–2025):
🧠 Trauma & Complex Trauma
Complex Trauma: Parts Work, Somatic Psychology, and EMDR (Arielle Schwartz, PhD)
Trauma and the Roots of Infidelity (Esther Perel, MA; Holly Richmond, PhD)
Trauma and Narcissism: Personality Disorders as Trauma-Related Disorders (Janina Fisher, PhD)
🧩 Narcissistic Abuse & Personality Disorders
Narcissistic Abuse In-Depth Workshop (Dr. Ramani Durvasula)
Working with the Fallout of Narcissistic Abuse (Dr. Ramani Durvasula)
Psychoeducation on Narcissistic Abuse: Types & Experiences
Grief and Narcissistic Relationships: Clinical Skills for Past, Present, and Future Losses
Gaslighting: Recognition & Recovery for Manipulated and Controlled Clients
Borderline, Narcissistic, Antisocial, and Histrionic Personality Disorders: Effective Treatments for Challenging Clients
🧍♀️ Couples Therapy & Relationship Dynamics
Introduction to Esther Perel’s Couples Therapy Approach
The Perfect Marriage (Esther Perel, MA)
Speak to Me in French: Dynamics in Intimacy (Esther Perel, MA)
😔 Grief, Self-Betrayal & Identity
After Self-Betrayal: Strategies to Help Clients Reclaim Their Authentic Selves
Grief and Loss in Narcissistic Relationships
Trauma-Informed Processing of Past, Present, and Future Losses
🌪️ Anxiety & Emotional Regulation
2-Day Anxiety Certification Course: CBT + ERP for GAD, Panic Disorder, OCD, Social Anxiety, and Phobias (12.5 hours)
🎨 Creative & Somatic Approaches
IFS-Informed Parts Work
Mindfulness & Somatic Psychology
Psychoeducation and Journaling for Healing
👶 Additional Specialized Areas
Introduction to Play Therapy (CAPT)
Neurodiversity and Youth: Counselling & Substance Use Education for School-Based Settings
I work with individuals, couples, and families who are navigating the emotional aftermath of difficult or toxic relationships—often shaped by narcissistic patterns, conflict, or unmet needs that linger long after the relationship ends. Many of my clients are insightful, self-aware, and still unsure why they feel stuck, angry, or disconnected. I support adults, teens, and professionals who are ready to understand their patterns, strengthen their boundaries, and move forward with more confidence and self-trust. If you're ready to break the cycle and create something different, I’d be honoured to work with you.