The Holidays When Things Aren’t Okay
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The Holidays When Things Aren’t Okay

This article is for you if you’re spending the holidays with your partner and part of you is trying to enjoy it…while another part of you knows that something important in the relationship isn’t okay.

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When You’re Not Yourself During the Holidays
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When You’re Not Yourself During the Holidays

When we are carrying prolonged emotional strain, especially related to relationships and the pressure of the holidays, our ability to stay present, alert, and attuned begins to falter. The nervous system narrows its focus to survival, and things that normally come easily—memory, attention, emotional availability—can slip.

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Between Sessions: Gentle Practices to Support Your Growth
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Between Sessions: Gentle Practices to Support Your Growth

As a Calgary therapist, I’ve seen how small daily practices — such as noticing your emotions with compassion, setting gentle boundaries, or taking a mindful breath — can create profound change over time. These tools are meant to help you:

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Make a Date—with Anxiety
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Make a Date—with Anxiety

What If You Scheduled a Date… with Your Anxiety?

Yes, a date.
Not with a person. Not with a project.
With your anxiety.

Anxiety loves to lurk in the background. It creeps in while you’re trying to work, have a conversation, drive, study, or even relax. It whispers worries while you’re doing your best to stay focused on something else.

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